Nobody likes a whiner and complainer. So, when on a date avoid the tendency to bitch and moan about how the world is treating you unfairly. Hold your tongue about how you were mistreated by your ex-girlfriend or wife. Trust me, one of the best ways to ensure that you don't get a second date with a woman you're trying to impress, is to bitch and gripe about everything while on your first date.
When on a date with single women your best strategy is to be upbeat and positive. You'll make a much better impression on her this way instead of acting negative.
Now let's talk about the second thing you must try to avoid when on a date. That is arguing. Some people just by their nature, want to argue and disagree about everything. Don't do it guys! This will turn your date off and I'll explain why.
When you are arguing with a woman you're on a date with you are in a sense telling her that her opinions, thoughts, ideas, and things that she's learned in a lifetime don't make a damn bit of sense and she's totally wrong. Believe me, people don't like to be told they are wrong. This puts them in a defensive mode and they will resent you and make them angry.
So, do you want your date pissed off at you? If you consistently insult her intelligence and disagree with her, do you really think that she's going to want to see you again and expose herself to being mistreated and disrespected again? I think not!
Avoid arguing if at all possible while on a date. If she is obviously wrong about something and you can't bite your tongue, then create a third party to do your arguing for you. How do you do this? Let me explain:
Make a comment that such and such said (another person, what you heard on the radio or TV, what you read in a magazine, newspaper, or book, etc.). I think you get the picture here. She won't be arguing with you directly, she will be disagreeing with a third party and in this way it let's you off the hook.
This is kind of a sneaky way of arguing, but it works! Try it.
In closing, if you're the type of guy who enjoys arguing and trying to prove people wrong about everything they say just to boost your own ego, you will become a very unpopular person. People will go out of their way to avoid you and this unfortunately includes the women that you date.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.